Meet EJ

Hey I'm Eric, but my friends call me EJ. After years worth of relationship experience, I realized I have a major passion: helping men navigate the complicated world of relationships. As a guy who's been through it all, I've learned some valuable lessons from my own dating successes… and fails. Now I'm here to share the advice I wish I’d heard a long time ago.

Let me just start by saying that,

I’m not a doctor.

I’m not a psychiatrist.

I’m not a therapist.

And I have definitely not been successful with the past relationships I’ve had.

I’m just a single father dating at 40 years old. I really just wanna make that clear because most people would think that in order to give people advice they must come from a place of successful achievements or stories that show an accomplished status of relationship examples, for which I have none. But the one thing I was possessed and was driven with was the willingness and desire to find the right one. And not just anyone, but the person that is truly meant for me, kinda like my mother was for my father.

It has been this leading force in trying to secure a specific type of companionship that has lead me to date a lot. And I don’t just mean a lot. I mean like I have too many stories not to share. Some good, some bad, and some that will completely surprise you. Maybe those who believe in finding your person the way I do can relate to some of the stories I have to share.

I know I can help in either of two ways:

1. The first is to help you understand if you are truly ready to get out there and date. Do you have the right amount of patience, emotional maturity, finical stability, and charisma to engage in both the online world and the real world?

2. The second is to help you understand what to do and what not to do when dating. Most of these things are related to communication. Things like how to converse, how to recognize the signals your partner is sending you, and how to understand those messages.

Honestly, I just really put this all together in hopes of helping young men, men my age, and even some older men come together to really talk about ways that WE can all be better at dating.

FAQ

  • ASK EJ. is for men who share the goal of being better romantic partners and want to build healthy relationships. This is a space where men can be vulnerable about the challenges they face in their dating lives and be open to improving themselves.

  • Yes, I encourage anyone who has a story they want to share to submit it to the Journal. This will offer insight to fellow members of our community.

  • To send me a message, please fill out the form on the Contact page. Whether you have a relationship issue you are currently working through or want to start dating, I’m here to help.